Embracing Gratitude and Connection in a Changing World

Tony Johnson
Nov 23, 2025
6 min read

Updated: Mar 23

This time of year makes us all a little more mindful of gratitude. It becomes a time for reflection and intentionality about the last year and is a great time to pause and take a beat.

As A.I. continues to create tremendous opportunities for acceleration, growth, and efficiency, it has further eroded the personal touch. Reading about Chat-GPT-created Christmas messages and automating New Year’s outreach feels both efficient and soulless.

As a hospitality guy, I thrive on people. I understand that not everyone is wired that way. What energizes me about a big room full of people might make some feel anxious or frustrated. It’s always been that way, and everyone is different in that regard.

But we must take a moment to consider that gratitude, connection, and people matter.

A Year of Change and Adventure

For me, it has been a whirlwind year of change and adventure. I was on the road for 22 weeks, traveled to 11 states, and worked with financial service organizations, universities, city governments, chambers of commerce, restaurants, airlines, banks, and manufacturing to improve customer and employee experiences.

And I’m grateful to them all.

This year, I joined forces with a dear friend, Simon Elliot, to bring 4xi Global Consulting and Ignite Your Service Training & Consulting together. This partnership marks the beginning of an exciting journey into the future, one that fills me with immense gratitude.

It was also a year of bittersweet moments. My dear Customer Service Dog, Charlie, left us for the rainbow road, and Dobbie, our sweet little rescue puppy, joined our family to keep TJ company. I couldn't feel luckier.

TJ Dobby Charlie

So What? The Importance of Connection

So why share any of this? Because gratitude and connection matter. As we move through the holidays into the new year, they will continue to matter even more. In a world where AI is finding its place and leaders are pushing to stay ahead of the transformation, the best way to thrive is to keep personal connections top of mind.

This seems like the perfect time to think about how we can all bring a bit more connection, gratitude, and intentional communication into the world.

People will follow those who make them feel seen and valued. Connection is a loyalty engine.
Teams engage at a higher level when they feel appreciated.
AI and human connection are a competitive advantage.

Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. - Helen Keller

What You Should Do Right Now? Building New Habits

Now is the time to act. This means building new habits and reinforcing key behaviors in your team.

You can integrate intentional gratitude into your daily leadership with both your team and your customers. This means every day, every shift. It’s not something you can just do when you have time or when you’re "feeling it." It must be part of your leadership lexicon.

When you find ways to catch your team getting it right and train and inspire other leaders to do the same, it can quickly catch fire within your organization. No matter how large or small your business, there is always room for more connection and recognition.

The Power of Empathy and Connection

This is also the time to double down on connection and empathy. There is a shortfall of relationship building in the world right now. This gap is often dampened by technology, eroding communication skills, or those who connect to sell rather than to build relationships. Teams respect leaders who know them beyond daily work. This is a core competency of the most successful leaders I work with. They take the time to know their teams as more than just “Bob from accounting.” They know he is an avid fisherman with two kids who enjoy going to Kings Island, for example. Also, Bob hates to be called Robert.

Thanks to the pandemic and the rise of digital communication, personal connections have become a struggle for many. A key impact has been the erosion of listening, communication, and in-person relationship-building skills. According to a Harris Poll, 65% of Gen Z said they had to "relearn social skills" after pandemic restrictions were lifted.

Anecdotally, as I work with employers, the ability for team members to collaborate and work together with strong communication is seen as a weakness in many employees in our current workforce. Younger Millennials and Gen Z often feel under-prepared to network, speak confidently, or resolve conflict.

Building Relationships Over Time

The thing about communication, relationship building, and recognition is that everyone looks for the big moment rather than appreciating the small, daily, boring stuff. You don’t build relationships or friendships from a single moment. You may feel that spark of something to build on as you discover a new colleague or potential friend, but the real work starts after that. You must put in the effort to fan the spark and get to know people over time.

Relationships are funny things. They are never 50/50. They also never quite balance the same as time goes on. I have friends I’ve had for over a decade. Depending on what’s happening in our lives, one carries more of the load at different times. Sometimes I’m the one calling or texting to keep the connection going, and other times I’m the one who slacks a bit, and the other person takes the mantle of keeping us in touch. Most long-lasting relationships share this dynamic.

Gratitude is the same way. So often, leaders look for that big moment to celebrate a team member, customer, or client that they miss the opportunity to thank them for the small things that really matter. The things that, over time, define excellence or partnership. The things that drive long-term success.

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BOOK TIME WITH TONY

So that really is the message. Don't wait. Don't make it overly complicated. Don't pull back from communication. Embrace it now and start moving forward on this before the new year. That way, it's not a resolution; it's a real commitment.

When you take the time to lean into gratitude and connection, amazing things happen:

Increased customer loyalty and reduced churn
Stronger word of mouth and reputation
Improved employee engagement and retention
Teams feel more connected, fueling them to innovate and solve problems
Higher customer lifetime value

Consider how you will lead into the future. Think about how you will use your personal style to build connections with your team. These skills will set you apart in a world that is rapidly changing due to AI and technology.

The good news is that transformation is nothing new. It is a constant that leaders have dealt with since there were teams to lead. Through it all, those who could adapt, communicate, build relationships, solve problems, and embrace innovations found themselves at the center of exciting developments.

Until next time, keep your team and your customers top of mind and center stage.

Tony (Crafted by a human, not AI.)

Meet Tony Johnson

Tony is the Co-Managing Partner, Co-Owner, and Chief Experience Officer (CXO) for 4xi Global Consulting. He is an internationally recognized thought leader and influencer in Customer and Employee Experience. Tony hosts the wildly successful Customer Service Academy podcast and is the author of two books on leadership and CX.

Tony has worked with some of the top organizations across the globe, including Delta, 3M, Baylor Scott and White Health, University of Virginia, Siemens, SHRM, and more.

Tony is available to help your organization with:

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CX and EX strategy creation
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